I am a dinner-table-Mom. I don't think dinner is insignificant. Quite the opposite. Dinner is important to me. While I always love to serve a good meal to my family, the food really is not what is important. The
dinner is what is important.
My family, sitting at the same table, sharing a meal together, and talking to each other. This is dinner.
It is the one time, throughout our busy days, that we take time as a family to be together - as one. The T.V. is off, the hands are washed, and the conversation flows. Mind you, this is not the marines, everything does not always run smoothly, but ultimately it is
my family, together. Yes, I continually have to remind the kids to sit in their chairs straight. Yes, the glass of milk or water or apple juice is occasionally knocked over and I holler at the kids to be more careful. Yes, I do find some of the baby's food tossed on the floor and our dog, Hurley, is doing his best to clean up the evidence. Yes, Emily keeps yelling at Hudson to quit chomping and I have to remind him to chew with his mouth closed. Yes, many meals shared at our dinner table are chaotic and not quite picturesque.... But I wouldn't trade these dinners for anything.
These dinners are the moments when we share our lives with our family. The good, the bad and the ugly, it can be expressed during dinner. This is when you know your family,
your whole family, is listening. This is when we hear about the perfect part in the play that Emily is trying out for. Or about the endless drama Emily is having with the girls at school, because that's what happens when they're 10. Or, even better, how Emily has a crush on a boy...in her class...who is a baseball player. This is when Hudson tells us he is getting really good at addition and subtraction and that 1 + 10 - 50 = 100. Or that he can't wait for football season because he knows he will be one of the best players on the team. This is when Brooklyn, topless at the dinner table, sings 'Happy Birthday' to us because that's one of her favorite songs to sing. Or she's completely silent, for the first time all day, because she is chowing down. This is when we talk about our goals, weekend plans, struggles and plans to overcome them. This is when our family focuses on each other. And, within a flash, the dinner plates are cleared, one by one the dinner table is emptied, and the hustle and bustle of our lives picks up right where it left off. That was
dinner.
Mama's Sausage, Ricotta and Spinach stuffed Manicotti
serves 5-6
2 28 ounce cans of peeled, whole plum tomatoes (use San Marzano with basil, if you can)
8-10 TB butter
1 ½ medium onions, peeled and cut in half
Salt
filling
1 TB butter or olive oil
½-1 lb fresh (or frozen) spinach
1 TB olive oil
½ large onion, diced
1 lb Italian sausage, casings removed
1 ½ cups Ricotta
½-3/4 cup Parmesan, grated, plus more for sprinkling
Salt & pepper
1 gallon size Ziploc bag
1 box Manicotti shells
Preheat oven to 350 degrees.
First, start making your sauce. Put the canned tomatoes in a saucepan, add the butter, onion, and salt (to taste), and cook uncovered at a very slow, but steady simmer for 45 minutes, or until the fat floats free from the tomato. Stir from time to time, mashing any large piece of tomato in the pan with the back of a wooden spoon. Taste and correct for salt. Discard the onion before tossing with pasta.
Meanwhile, get water ready to boil manicotti. Cook until al dente, drain and set aside.
Melt butter in a large sauté pan, add spinach and sauté until spinach is completely wilted. Set on a plate to cool.
Add olive oil and onions to pan, sauté until onions are translucent. Add sausage, breaking into bite size pieces as it browns. Place on a plate with paper towels to soak up the grease and set aside to cool, slightly.
Chop cooled spinach into bite size pieces and place in large mixing bowl. Add Ricotta, Parmesan, sausage, salt and pepper. Mix until combined. Place mixture into a gallon size Ziploc bag, seal, and make a diagonal cut in one of the bottom corners.
In a 9 x 13 baking dish, lightly cover the bottom with sauce. Then, fill the manicotti, squeezing the filling out of the bag into each side of the shell and place in the baking dish. It is ok to fit them in the dish tightly. Once they are all filled, cover the top with the remaining sauce. Top with a Parmesan cheese. Cook in the oven for 30 minutes. Serve immediately.